How Strong We Can Love Unconditionally ? - Judging from his age he no longer youthful, age has even been approached evening twilight, pack of 58 years of daily Suyatno filled with caring for his sick wife is also old. their marriage was over 32 years. They were blessed with 4 children is where the initial trials hit, after his wife gave birth to four legs suddenly paralyzed and unable to move it there for 2 years, stepped into a three-year whole body became weak and even feels his tongue invertebrates can no longer move.
Every day Mr. Suyatno bathing, cleaning up, feeding, and lifted her onto the bed. Before leaving for work he put his wife in front of the TV so she did not feel lonely. Although she can not talk but she always saw her smiling, fortunately Mr. Suyatno the place of business is not so far from home that day he came home to feed her lunch. afternoon he came home to bathe her, change her clothes and just after sunset he accompanied his wife to watch television while telling other what he experienced all day.
Although she could only see but can not respond, sir Suyatno was quite happy even he was always teasing his wife each goes to sleep. Mr. Suyatno routine is done over the last 25 years, with a patient he treated his wife even as he raised all four of their hearts, their children are now grown up to live the youngest who was in college.
Every day Mr. Suyatno bathing, cleaning up, feeding, and lifted her onto the bed. Before leaving for work he put his wife in front of the TV so she did not feel lonely. Although she can not talk but she always saw her smiling, fortunately Mr. Suyatno the place of business is not so far from home that day he came home to feed her lunch. afternoon he came home to bathe her, change her clothes and just after sunset he accompanied his wife to watch television while telling other what he experienced all day.
Although she could only see but can not respond, sir Suyatno was quite happy even he was always teasing his wife each goes to sleep. Mr. Suyatno routine is done over the last 25 years, with a patient he treated his wife even as he raised all four of their hearts, their children are now grown up to live the youngest who was in college.
On a day to four children at home Suyatno their parents gathered while visiting his mother. Because they married after the child had lived with their families and their mother decided to sir Suyatno he cared, he wanted only one of all children succeed.
With that sentence carefully enough the first-born son said "Sir we would love to take care of the mother, since we were kids to see the father take care of the mother is not an iota of complaint out of the father's lips ... . Even the father did not let us take care of mom ". With tears in his eyes the boy went on to say, "was the fourth time we allow the father to marry again, we think mother will allow it, when you enjoy an old father with sacrifices like this we can not bear to see you, we promise we will treat Best of the mother in turn ".
Mr. Suyatno said something totally unexpected their children. "My children ... If marriage and live in this world only to lust, maybe you will get married ..... . But please know you are right next to the mother is already more than enough, she gave birth to you .. insulated throat for a moment ... I miss you guys are always present in this world with love which none can appreciate with any. Will you ask your mother if she wanted the conditions like this. you want a happy father, whether the mind can be happy leaving your mother's father with keadaanya now, you want a father who was given God the health care of others, what about your mother is still sick. "For a moment the children burst into tears sir Suyatno they also see the grains small fall in the eyes of the mother in Suyatno eyes staring sadly .. my husband loved it .. which is very.
Finally came Suyatno invited by one of the private TV station to be a resource person and they ask questions to Mr. Suyatno why can survive for 25 years caring for his wife who was not okay .. that's when he burst out crying with guests in attendance at the studio most of the daughters could not resist touching story that is where the sir Suyatno.
"If people in this world glorifies a love in her marriage, but do not want to give (to give time, energy, thought, attention) is vanity. I chose my wife became my life companion, and when he is healthy he too patiently cared for me, love me with heart and his mind was not with the eyes, and he gave me 4 children who funny.
Now he is sick because the sacrifice for our love together .. and it is a test for me, if I can hold a commitment to love what they are. I health not necessarily looking for a replacement let alone he's sick, it's a true lesson of unconditional love for us all.
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