Manual Book (Guide Book) The Mandatory Read Before Complaining

Manual Book (Guide Book) The Mandatory Read Before Complaining - Think first ... Today before you say the words that are not good, think about someone who can not speak at all. Before you complain about the taste of your food, think about someone who does not have anything to eat. Before you complain about not having anything, think about someone begging on the streets.

Before you complain that you are bad, think about someone who is at the level of the worst in his life. Before you complain about your husband or wife, think about someone who is asking the Lord to give me a life. Today before you complain about your life, think about someone who died too soon. Before you complain about your children, think about someone who desperately wants to have children but she was barren.

Before you complain about your dirty house because your servant is doing his job, think about the people living on the streets yag. Before you complain about that you have to drive away, think about a person the same distance by walking. And when you are tired and complain about your job, think about the unemployed, disabled people who wish they had a job like you.

Before you show the finger and blame someone else, remember that no one is innocent (innocent).  We are all responsible to God for life each of us. When you're feeling sad because you live in distress, smiled and gave thanks to God that you are given the power through it. Without you even knowing who you'll get a true HAPPINESS.

Meaning of a fraternity, How Valuable To You ?

Meaning of a fraternity, How Valuable To You ? - Real success story, On a sunny morning with the cool air in the countryside, a mother was chatting with a seventh boy, joy and happiness and togetherness in the family awoke, after a moment and then threw the child's first sentences of wisdom to his mother, Mother ... I was not too bright compared to my friends at school, but please do not let you remove it for me STUPID sentence. Mother ... I was not too pretty / handsome than the children of your mother's garden, but please do not let you remove the phrase BAD for me.

Mom ... I did not submissive like other children, but please do not let you remove bad words for me. Mom ... I did often err against the rules of Religion as helplessness, but please do not let you remove the lawless sentence for me. Mother ..., until the day I have not been able to reply to all your services and have not been able to happy as you wish, but please do not let out a sentence for me DON'T KNOW YOURSELF

Mother ..., if to this day I still often forget to pray for my busy, please do not stop the tears your pray for me and do not also your hated out a word from your lips, she was then tears in his eyes, what does this mother's tears?


Once Upon A few years later ...., an educated young man from Semarang was traveling on a plane to Jakarta. Beside him sat a middle-aged mother. Greeted the young man, and soon they were dissolved in small talk. "Mom, what's on go to Jakarta?" Asked the youth. "Oh ... I'm going to Jakarta continue" connecting flight "to Singapore to visit my second child," replied the mother. "Wouw ... terrific mother's son," replied the young man and was silent for a moment.

The young man pondered. With a courage that is based on the young man's curiosity continued his questions. "If I'm not mistaken, children in Singapore earlier, the second son bu ya? What about the brother and his younger brothers and sisters? "

Oh yes of course ", the mother recalled:" My third child of a doctor in Malang, the fourth work on plantations in Lampung, the fifth to be an architect in Jakarta, which becomes the sixth head of the branch bank in Navan, and the seventh became a lecturer at leading universities in Semarang. Quiet young man, a great mother, can educate their children very well, from the second to seventh. "What about the mother's first child?" Taking a deep breath, she replied, "My son who first became farmers in Yogyakarta Godean son. He worked on his own fields that are not too wide. "Said his mother. 

The young man quickly replied, "Excuse me ma'am ... yes maybe a little disappointed with the mother's mother's first child, because her sisters are well educated and successful in his work, while he became a farmer?"

What is the responsibility of the mother ..?
Do you want to know the answer ..?

With a smile ...... mother replied :
"Ooo ... no, not my son .... It is VERY VERY PROUD with my first child, because he was the school fund all of her sisters from the results of his farm" ... The young man seeing ............., A moment we ask ourselves, how the condition of our brothers today? how are we brothers? and how it is with our mother and father ............., what we have given to them, is there a tear and prayer for the salvation of the world heaven ? Today? yesterday? or tomorrow? All the important people in this world. Open our eyes, our minds, our hearts. The point is we can not create a summary before you read all of the events to complete. The wise man speaks "THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD IS NOT WHO WE CONTINUE TO ASK? but WHAT WE HAVE WORK COPYRIGHT AND WHAT WE HAVE TO DO WE YOU-YOU AND OTHERS? "

Living to Work or Work to Live ?

Living to Work or Work to Live ? - In ancient times, there was an Emperor who told his horse riders, when she went riding his horse and cover as much territory as he could, then the emperor would give the region as much as he reach. Of course, the horseman quickly jumped onto his horse and went as quickly as possible to reach as many areas as possible. He continued to push and push, whipping his horse to go as fast as possible. When he was hungry or tired, he did not stop because he wanted to gain as much territory as possible.

In the end, when he had reached a fairly large area, he was exhausted and dying. The riders then ask himself, "Why did I make myself so hard to reach so many areas? Now I am dying and I only need a very small piece of land to bury myself. "The story on the same journey of our lives. Every day we push ourselves hard to make more money, power or fame. We neglect our health, time with family, friends, neighborhood and hobbies that we like. One day, when we look back, we realize that we really do not need the money, power or fame that much, but we can not restore the times we've missed.

Life is not about making money, gaining power or fame. Life is definitely not about work! Work is only necessary to keep us survive so we can enjoy the beauty and happiness of life. Life is a balance between work and play, family, friends and personal time. You have to decide how you want to balance your life. Determine and set your life priorities. Life is fragile, Life is short. Do not waste your life, balance lifestyle and enjoy LIFE

How Strong We Can Love Unconditionally ?

How Strong We Can Love Unconditionally ? - Judging from his age he no longer youthful, age has even been approached evening twilight, pack of 58 years of daily Suyatno filled with caring for his sick wife is also old. their marriage was over 32 years. They were blessed with 4 children is where the initial trials hit, after his wife gave birth to four legs suddenly paralyzed and unable to move it there for 2 years, stepped into a three-year whole body became weak and even feels his tongue invertebrates can no longer move.

Every day Mr. Suyatno bathing, cleaning up, feeding, and lifted her onto the bed. Before leaving for work he put his wife in front of the TV so she did not feel lonely. Although she can not talk but she always saw her smiling, fortunately Mr. Suyatno the place of business is not so far from home that day he came home to feed her lunch. afternoon he came home to bathe her, change her clothes and just after sunset he accompanied his wife to watch television while telling other what he experienced all day.

Although she could only see but can not respond, sir Suyatno was quite happy even he was always teasing his wife each goes to sleep. Mr. Suyatno routine is done over the last 25 years, with a patient he treated his wife even as he raised all four of their hearts, their children are now grown up to live the youngest who was in college.

On a day to four children at home Suyatno their parents gathered while visiting his mother. Because they married after the child had lived with their families and their mother decided to sir Suyatno he cared, he wanted only one of all children succeed.

With that sentence carefully enough the first-born son said "Sir we would love to take care of the mother, since we were kids to see the father take care of the mother is not an iota of complaint out of the father's lips ... . Even the father did not let us take care of mom ". With tears in his eyes the boy went on to say, "was the fourth time we allow the father to marry again, we think mother will allow it, when you enjoy an old father with sacrifices like this we can not bear to see you, we promise we will treat Best of the mother in turn ".

Mr. Suyatno said something totally unexpected their children. "My children ... If marriage and live in this world only to lust, maybe you will get married ..... . But please know you are right next to the mother is already more than enough, she gave birth to you .. insulated throat for a moment ... I miss you guys are always present in this world with love which none can appreciate with any. Will you ask your mother if she wanted the conditions like this. you want a happy father, whether the mind can be happy leaving your mother's father with keadaanya now, you want a father who was given God the health care of others, what about your mother is still sick. "For a moment the children burst into tears sir Suyatno they also see the grains small fall in the eyes of the mother in Suyatno eyes staring sadly .. my husband loved it .. which is very.

Finally came Suyatno invited by one of the private TV station to be a resource person and they ask questions to Mr. Suyatno why can survive for 25 years caring for his wife who was not okay .. that's when he burst out crying with guests in attendance at the studio most of the daughters could not resist touching story that is where the sir Suyatno.

"If people in this world glorifies a love in her marriage, but do not want to give (to give time, energy, thought, attention) is vanity. I chose my wife became my life companion, and when he is healthy he too patiently cared for me, love me with heart and his mind was not with the eyes, and he gave me 4 children who funny.

Now he is sick because the sacrifice for our love together .. and it is a test for me, if I can hold a commitment to love what they are. I health not necessarily looking for a replacement let alone he's sick, it's a true lesson of unconditional love for us all.

Law of Positive Thinking In Our Lives

Law of Positive Thinking In Our Lives - Pygmalion known as a man who likes to think positive. He looked at everything from a good angle. If the muddy ground in the middle of town, the people grumbled. But Pygmalion said, "Fortunately, the other field is not sebecek." When there is a statue buyer insists on offering bargain, folks whispered Pygmalion, "the person is really stingy." But Pygmalion said, "Maybe he needs to spend money for other more necessary affairs ". When the children stealing apples dikebunnya, Pygmalion is not cursed. He even felt pity, "Poor, children's lack of education and adequate food at home." That pattern of view Pygmalion. He did not see a situation in terms of bad, but rather in terms of either. He never thought ill of others on the contrary, he tried to imagine good things behind the misdeeds of others.

One day Pygmalion carved a wooden statue of a woman who is very smooth. It's a real man-sized statue. When it was finished, the sculpture looks like a human right. The face of the statue was a charming smile, her beautiful attractive.

Comrades Pygmalion said, "Ah, most beautiful statue, it's just a statue, not a wife." But Pygmalion treated the statue as a human right. Many times the statue was staring and stroked. The gods of Mount Olympus in attention and appreciative of Pygmalion, and they decided to give grace to Pygmalion, which transform the statue into a human right.

Thus, Pygmalion live happily with his wife was supposedly the most beautiful woman in the whole country of Greece. Pygmalion's name is remembered to this day for a portrait of the impact of positive thinking patterns. If we think positively about a situation or person, often the results are truly to be positive. For example, if we be kind to someone, the person rose will be friendly to us. If we treat our children as a smart kid, he's finally become truly intelligent.

If we believe that our efforts will succeed, is most likely to attempt a partial success. The impact of positive thinking is called Pygmalion effect. Our minds are often having an impact fulfilling prophecy or prophecy fulfilled, whether positive or negative. If we consider our neighbors grumpy so we do not want to hang out with him, then finally he really be bitchy. If we suspect a child and assume we are not honest, he'd really be dishonest.

If we were desperate and felt unable to start a business, a huge chance we really going to fail. Pygmalion is the mindset of thinking, guessing and hoping only good about a situation or person. Imagine, how big impact if we are such a positive mindset. We will not be prejudiced about other people. We do not arouse the ugly rumors about others. We do not speculate about the evil of others.

If we think negatively about someone else, there's always material to suspect bad things. If a friend gives to us, obviously it is a good deed. But if we think bad, we would be suspicious, "Perhaps he is trying to persuade," or we grumbled, "Ah, the prize was just the cheap stuff." The loss of such a mindset is easy ourselves. We become suspicious. We become unhappy. Conversely, if we think positively, we will enjoy the gift with joy and gratitude, "He was so generous.

Although he was busy, he remembered to give to us. "The color of life is dependent on the color of glasses we wear. If you wear glasses gray, everything will look gray. Life becomes gray and gloomy. But if we wear glasses that light, everything will look brighter. Glasses are prejudiced or hate will make our lives full of suspicion and rancor. But the glass eye that peace will make our lives peaceful.

Life would be better if we looked at in terms of good. Think well of yourself. Think well of others. Think well about the situation. Think well of God. Impact thought it would be good as we feel. The family is warm. Friend to be trusted. Neighbors become familiar. Work into fun. World became friendly. Life can be beautiful. Like Pygmalion, that is.

Why Someone Define Success Mindset ?

Why Someone Define Success Mindset ? - Read This answer is, There is a wealthy merchant who has two sons in critical condition, in the last seconds of his life was a rich merchant will provide the abundant form of inherited wealth and lived two broken a secret message to the second son his heir.

After giving the inheritance will be equally fair to the two sons was the father added two provisions in their first advice he gives a message to the two children :

"My son, two important messages to convey to you that wants the father to the success of your life". "First: do not ever collect receivables to anyone". "Secondly, your body never exposed to direct sunlight" Time goes on, day in and day out, week turned into weeks, months turned into months turned into years and years do not feel five years is already running. What happens to the two sons of merchants who use the same for the father's inheritance money to expand their businesses.

5 yrs went by the mother turned her eldest son with a very poor business conditions, the mother was asked, "O my oldest son why the condition of your business so ..:.?"

The elder replied :

"I followed bu ... My father's message is prohibited to collect accounts receivable anyone who is not so much in pay and capital for long finished my second message that my father told me not exposed to direct sunlight and I just got a motorcycle, why go and I always take a taxi home ... :) "
Then the mother went to the youngest who is much different circumstances. The youngest successful business. The mother was asked, "O my youngest son why such a good life ...?"

The youngest said :

"It's because my dad followed the message bu .. The first message that I was forbidden to collect receivables to anyone. Therefore I do not ever give anyone a debt to remain intact so that my capital .. " . "My second message is prohibited exposed to direct sunlight, then the motor that I have I always leave home before sunrise and after sunset, so the customer knows my shop open early and close more afternoon .. "
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What lessons can we learn from the story above, the eldest and youngest received a SAME message, yet each has its interpretation and point of view or different MINDSET. They DO have a different way so different RESULTS. Caution is in our mindset ..Positive mindset gives amazing results, in contrast to the devastating negative mindset ..

Always THINK and DO ... Positively! Your success is not determined solely by the efforts of the hard work you do but also because it influences how and what kind of mindset that you have in view a message and the state.

How to Find What You Dreams and Goals Truly ?

How to Find What You Dreams and Goals Truly ? - Probably most of us have forgotten what we dream of when still a child. The fact makes us all give in to reach the dream, which had really hoped to be real. Actually, it is possible to continue to dream and make it real.
 

Here we provide 10 guidance to rediscover and cultivate your deepest desires come true :

1. Extreme Self Care Train. The first and crucial step to find the deepest dreams of your life, is unusually good attention to yourself ! When you numb and the only way that makes you happy is the lament of self, your desires will also drown, even without you knowing it. So start to look after yourself well. What activities of daily self-maintenance can you do? Enjoy it.
2. Listen to Body Cues. What do you know when your body says 'No'? Most of us do the work and could not get the pleasure of the body because we said 'No'. Many times we feel nausea, headaches, abdominal pain, tense neck muscles. All the tension and pain! It is difficult for our bodies to pretend. That's why it's very real lie detection. So if you want to trust your passion listen to what your body says. Hear the time, said 'Yes'. View the excess energy (the fear is also included), the fun and excitement.
3. Explore Your Desires. Desire is a feeling, so pay attention. Subjects, activities, magazine or what topics are you most interested in? Have fun with it. Make a list of what is really get your attention and see the theme. Now begin to explore your strongest passion.
4. Allow Yourself Dream. As we grow older, we often choose to stop dreaming and more realistic. The problem we are so lost track of what we really care about. So, now began to revive your wild dreams and do it as freely as possible. Look back every area of your life and write ideas that come from the visions of the areas that really interest you.
5. See The Haunting Your Dreams. Have you ever had a dream that continues to haunt you? Have you ever said something like, 'I would love to start my own business.' Or 'One day I will turn this hobby into a career.' Give more attention to the dreams 'inherent' is. Many times we find the fulfillment of a dream just a small way, only to look back look back and discover what dreams are constantly harass your little heart.
6. Expand Your Vision. Most of us have saved a small vision for our lives. We feel afraid to reach for
7. something bigger. Is it enough to have value? Can we do it? For sure! It's time to grow and expand that vision! Discover what gifts you can give to someone else. Decide what is really important to be refined. Design the life you desire and make steps to make it happen. A vision will become real only if we take action to make it happen!
8. Discover Your Genius Side. We are all blessed with the strength and talent. This is an incredible gift to all our lives. We often miss it just because it's so easy to do. When we are used to and it would mean being run 'genius level' that we have. Overcome weaknesses and you will be competent. But more importantly, developed thanks to the unique side of you and make you a genius.
9. Clearly Trust The Stuffy. Often we stop creating our lives with passion 'clog confidence'. And in reality, it also has clogged the life of our dreams. Confidence that we have come from past experiences, our parents, teachers, friends who mangatakan if we should do something. It's time to look back on it and the price we pay for believing it. Remove all the mengahambat confidence! And began to give the breath of life to believe in your dreams.
10. Make a Plan. All the dreams of the world will not change life without effort. When you have an idea about what job you really expect, start taking the first step. Create a plan that will help you explore the idea. It is amazing to know how many doors that will open when you start making plans and acting!
11. Celebrate Your Success. The celebration is the most important thing! Start with a celebration in every small step in realizing your dreams. Why? First, because this is fun! Second, celebrate every little success helping you to stay focused on success and maintain your motivation to keep moving forward.

How to learn from success of Harley Davidson Reach Loyal Customers ?

How to learn from success of Harley Davidson Reach Loyal Customers ? - Errors in understanding the success of that success can be achieved by pushing a product or idea is a bad influence on aggressive selling activity and influence. This misconception encourage inappropriate behavior. For example, people like to be like beating around the bush, to impose the will and aggressive, or too much to say and easy to say yes for something. Selling activity and influence is very dependent on how the person seeking the right behavior, namely the balance between openness and firmness with warmth and competence. And, when combined with a good product or brand, it can support the development of customer loyalty.

Harley-Davidson in the past to overcome turbelensi denagn build customer loyalty, which later became one of the enduring assets. Harley-Davidson is one of the leading American manufacturer of motorcycles. However, in the 1980's sales declined sharply due to intense competition with Japanese-made motorcycles more affordable and quality. Harley-Davidson to improve its quality by using production techniques Dr. Edwards Deming.

The next challenge is to win back and retain market share (currently, Harley-Davidson has a level of customer loyalty by 90%). Knowledge of customer needs and how to attract customer emotions have helped Harley-Davidson in building trust and bond with customers. The Manager they meet with customers on a regular basis at various rallies to demonstrate their new models.

To increase customer loyalty, made the ad reinforces the brand image of Harley. Harley Owner's Group (HOG) is a membership club to build customer loyalty, of which 2/3 (two thirds) the customer is always renew their membership. Significantly, the Harley-Davidson to make sure its customers get the benefit of the value they appreciate.

The result, customers trust Harley-Davidson, the trust is used to build a stronger bond and the higher profits in a virtuous circle. Rich Teerlink, former chairman, commented, "perhaps the most significant advance program and will continue as it is a Harley Owners Group (HOG). The dealers regain confidence that Harley could be a reliable partner and capture the ideas of our people all the people in the Harley-Davidson is very important for us in the future succed "

In conclusion :

1. Provide a consistent experience (and ideally "her brand") to the customer everytime they deal with their business
2. Clarify what you offer value to offer to customers
3. Give incentive to new customers so they come back and buy again
4. Give awards for customer loyalty remains
5. Competitiveness have, what appears is not necessarily good for you according to your competitors
6. Make the customer experience easy and enjoyable
7. Convince customers by offering service and reliable products
8. Develop a continuous process based on feedback from customers
9. Show reliability by working with partners and investing in resources

Why We Need a Living Presence In figure Antagonists ?

Why We Need a Living Presence In figure Antagonists ? - Life without the people who hate us is like watching a movie without a Lord Voldemort Harry Potter, X-Men without Magneto, and Kung Fu Panda without Tai Lung or for soap opera fans will probably remember how the story without Mischa Fitr and Farel at Cinta Fitri.

Just imagine if there's no Harry Potter Lord Voldemort throughout, and where Harry gets his magic skills and speaking in a snake? There will never be this amazing lifelong Harry, Hogwarts school would be mediocre, and probably Neville Longbottom remain a geeky guy in her life.

X-Men without Magneto? Charles Xavier school then there will never be! And what if Tai Lung never appear in the movie Kungfu Panda? Po will continue to be a fat Panda noodle seller while the content of the Dragon Scroll remains a mystery in the Jade Palace. Furthermore, without antagonist characters, these movies had nothing to talk about.

Well, folks, so it is with our lives. Sometimes there are people who I think really envious of our life together and was impressed not seneng see us happy. Even if we do bener was rated one, especially if we had proven wrong?

Their presence sometimes makes us feel sick, even when it's really severe, it can be because of the depression until they act. But trust me, everything Happens for a good reason. If you do not have them, then who is dong that can make us grow stronger mentally denger cruel taunts? Who can make us self-introspection about the mistakes we made? Who can make us more mature step in addressing the problem?

No matter what you do, no matter how old you are, no matter what your job is, no matter what your place is in life, there's always going to be someone who's just mean to you. For me personally, the existence of bad guys in life is the number one motivator. In fact, the more I was abused, the more I was insulted and humiliated me more, the greater my motivation to be successful. I should be more than the people who usually just taunt and reproach me. I'll prove that one day, I could be more successful than them and they will realize that I was dropping stupidity LARGEST they once did.

"Love your haters, They are your biggest fans. Why? Because They always waste Their times just for your notice every wrong move. "

Why We Need Mission Statement ?

Why We Need Mission Statement ? - You will find that with a simple statement but comprehensive, you will be aided to setting up and maintaining consistency and clarity of purpose to the entire organization. Giving frame of reference for all major planning decisions that must be made by you and your management team, as well as by other units in your organization. Getting a commitment from everyone in your organization through clear communication about the nature and concept of business organization you. Gaining understanding and support from people outside the organization you are important to your success.

Basic application of the mission statement is as internal guidance for all major decision makers in your organization until the plan had been developed can be tested with the overall mission suitable organization. Without a clear statement of purpose for the whole organization, resources so you can easily spread when individual units operate completely independently, often with the aim of mutually intersecting. In other words, your mission statement should be a document that clear that enables everyone in your organization focused its course with the attitude that supports the overall purpose of the organization.